Howdy. Today I come to you with a little discussion post regarding “books that aren’t for your age-range”. I want to share just some thoughts that have been on my mind lately and see what other people think!
I feel like there’s two sides to the YA coin: young-Young Adult and mature-Young Adult. You can spot the difference between these two with the writing style, the actual age of the characters and the plot-points and topics discussed in the text.
That’s not to say that books with younger characters can’t fit into the mature-Young Adult category, or that young-Young Adult can’t still discuss important matters. I feel like most people are going to understand what I’m trying to say so I’m not going to over-explain myself. (please say you know what I mean🤞)

As someone who is approaching 20 *gasp horror* I’m starting to grow out of a large section of this genre that I still do really love. And that’s okay. It’s the circle of life. But sometimes I don’t realise that until I start reading.
For example, one of the first books I picked up this year was I Think I Love You by Aurianne Desombre and as soon as I started reading I realised the characters where younger then I was expecting and it read a lot younger too.
Ultimately I ended up enjoying it. I thought the age of the characters worked with the story being told and I found it cute, but before getting to that point I did have to think “how am I going to rate and review this?” Personally I didn’t like it but is it fair to drag down a books rating when logically I can see that it was meant for a younger audience?
My plan if I got to the end of the book and still thought “It read young. I didn’t enjoy that” was to simply not give it a star rating. Sure maybe I would have shared a review but in that review I would have prefaced it with why I wasn’t a huge fan. I think a lot of people check the overall star rating of a book before picking it up and to me it didn’t seem fair to drag it down.
I feel like I’ve come to terms now that I’m growing out of this genre. The older I get the less relatable books set in high-school are going to be. There’s gonna come a point where I don’t understand the slang, the pop-culture references, or the social-media the characters use and trust me it’s heartbreaking to even think about.
I’m already at the point where I’m shaking my head at a characters actions before taking a step back and thinking “are they actually being ridiculous, or are they just acting like a teenager with a lot of problems, hormones and an underdeveloped prefrontal cortex?”
With that being said, I do see a lot of one or two star reviews where the person expresses being “too old” as a reason for not liking a book and I guess I just wanted to see what other people had to say about this.
Thanks for reading. This was a little something different to my usual content but it’s been on my mind. I really do want to know what you think about this whole thing, please share your opinion in the comments, I’m super interested!!
I’m old (23 years older than you lol)…and in my 20’s I did grow out of young adult books but then I got back into it again. I miss the somewhat innocence of that age, because adulting can be such a challenge some days. I like to reminisce on the days where I had no bills to pay LOL – also I have a 9 year old and he is fast approaching middle school, so reading younger ya keeps me in the loop with slang and their pop culture references, etc. But I totally understand how you feel, great discussion post!
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I totally get the reading to reminisce!
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I will definitely say that as I got into my 20s, I did notice this a lot in the books I read. Typically for those I tend to default to 3 stars, especially if I feel if younger me would’ve enjoyed it more. For me 3 stars is still a good rating (there are definitely some who feel otherwise, but ratings are subjective) and I would definitely agree that rating a book 1 or 2 stars simply because “it read young” or “it was meant for younger readers” and the reviewer is “too old” is a bit… much? (Even if most of them are probably reading the book for their personal enjoyment, which is completely valid as well.)
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Yeah I totally agree with the 3 stars being a good rating and a go-to in this situation.
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I just posted a blog post on how I am outgrowing the YA genre xD
I still enjoy a lot of the books in the genre but just like you I just can’t relate anymore.
Awesome blog post 💛
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